Things You Should Know…to Survive Nov 20, 2009 Learning to expect the unexpected will help you get through this most painful time in your life. Here are 10 things you need to know if you are to survive. 1. Expect people to say stupid things. “Don’t… Read Tip »

It’s Okay to Cry Nov 20, 2009 Everybody has their way of dealing with grief.  I’m not the one to tell anyone that there is one “right” way to grieve.  I call Taryn at least 3 times a week to cry on her shoulder. … Read Tip »

Courage Prevailed Nov 20, 2009 You’ve done it. You buried your spouse and you’re still here, living , breathing, walking around. At least physically you are. Mentally though, you dont know where you are, and chances are… Read Tip »

Big Decisions Nov 20, 2009 When your loved one passes you are almost immediately thrown into making very big decisions. Whether it be requesting certain reports or speaking at their service, this page is here to let you know what… Read Tip »

My Experience Nov 20, 2009 I got his autopsy report today.  I had a feeling it was coming, even though I didn’t expect it for a few more months.  His death was so complicated, and I knew the investigation was ongoing. … Read Tip »

Strongly Recommended Nov 20, 2009 I received the autopsy report on March 18, 2007, exactly three months after my husband was killed. The autopsy comes in a FedEx envelope. Then, there is a manila envelope inside of that one with a warning… Read Tip »

The Timeline Nov 20, 2009 1.Your spouse will depart Iraq and fly into Dover Port Mortuary, located at Dover A.F.B, Dover, Deleware. * They will be escorted the whole trip over * Typically takes 2 to 3 days but can be up to a week… Read Tip »

Things You Should Know…to Survive Nov 10, 2009 Learning to expect the unexpected will help you get through this most painful time in your life. Here are 10 things you need to know if you are to survive. 1. Expect people to say stupid things. “Don’t… Read Tip »